8 Tips on How to Talk to a Doctor Who Doesn’t Seem to Be ListeningThe Alzheimer's Site
There are few things more frustrating than dealing with a serious health problem and having a doctor who doesn’t seem to be listening. But in addition to being discouraging, it can also lead to incorrect diagnoses and delays in treatment. If your doctor just doesn’t seem to be paying attention, try these techniques to get them to slow down and listen up.
8. Make a Plan
Before you head into the doctor’s office, know what you’re going to say. Plan and rehearse it beforehand so that the stress of being at the clinic or hospital doesn’t cause you to make mistakes. If you can lay everything out in a clear, concise way, your doctor is more likely to hear and understand all of your symptoms and concerns.
7. Focus On the Most Important Points First
Sometimes the big issues can get buried in an avalanche of small concerns. While even minor symptoms can be important, try to focus on the biggest ones first. After you address those, you can bring up more subtle symptoms and smaller issues. This gets your doctor to pay attention and can help them better understand what is going on.
6. Be Understanding About Interruptions
As you speak, your doctor may interrupt you. While this can be interpreted as impatience, it is often to get clarification or to possibly shed some light on what you’re experiencing. Try to be mindful of why your doctor is interrupting you, and work with them to figure out what exactly is going on.
5. But Also, Be Persistent
Even well-meaning interruptions can cause you to get off track and miss out on addressing important concerns. Don’t be afraid to keep redirecting the conversation back to your primary worries. Remember, it’s important to be your own advocate.
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